Friendship is perhaps the purest form of mutual support—a bond built not on obligation, but on choice, trust, and understanding. On International Friendship Day, we celebrate the connections that bring light to our darkest days, laughter to our routines, and strength when we need it most. True friends stand beside us through life’s highs and lows, offering not just company, but genuine care, empathy, and encouragement. As an ode to that kind of relationship, ApEx spoke to three people about what friendship means to them and their most special bond.
Rikav Hussain, 26
To me, friendship brings to mind Dipesh or Dalle who has been my friend for the past eight years. I still remember seeing him for the first time in college. He felt like an extension of me. We haven’t talked often since he went to Australia, and I’ve only met him once since he returned. Friends are meant to support you in times of need but not every friendship should be built on that expectation. Some friendships are more beautiful when they’re free from that kind of pressure. Anyway, let me just say our friendship hasn’t ended. Just like love doesn’t truly die, neither does friendship. These feelings, these energies—once created—can’t be destroyed. Even if someone claims they’ve moved on from love or friendship, I don’t believe it. That emotional energy still exists, somewhere, and it can resurface at any time. I will always have fond memories of Dipesh and wish him well.
Reshu Ingnam, 34
When I think of friendship, I remember Semi. There was an instant connection, a comfort in each other’s presence that didn’t need words or time to build. It just happened naturally. Unfortunately, she’s not a part of my life anymore. To me, true friendship is about growing together, supporting each other’s dreams, and holding space even when life gets busy or complicated. But sometimes, despite the love and bond, people grow in different directions. There wasn’t a single reason or a falling out, it was just life. Responsibilities, distance, and time created a gap we couldn’t bridge. Still, that doesn’t take away from what we shared. The laughter, the comfort, and the small talks are all precious memories I carry with me. Semi was a meaningful part of my life. She was more than a friend. She was family. A part of her will always live in my heart. If our paths cross again, I hope we can smile at the memories we made together.
Norkey Wangmu Yolmo, 34
Choden is the friend that I remember every time someone asks me to think of a special friend. Working at the same organization has brought us closer through shared interests, experiences, and commitments. We’re on a similar path, facing similar challenges, and whenever those challenges or differences arise, we always take the time to listen, reflect, and find a meaningful conclusion together. What makes our friendship even more special is that we both understand the importance of fun and laughter. No matter how busy life gets, we always make time—whether it’s a quick catch-up or a longer hangout session. Choden isn’t just my best friend. Choden is my chosen family. Thank you for always standing by me, for knowing how to make me laugh exactly when I need it, and for reminding me of who I am when I lose sight of myself. Friendship comes with its own pros and cons. What is needed is trust and faith in the role of friends.
